HOW TO GET THE GUY YOU WANT WITHOUT LOOKING LIKE YOUR TRYING TOO HARD.

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We have all had that one guy we love to date and show off to our lady friends, but we just can’t seem to bag him in one go. Probably because we don’t want to be too forceful, it scares him away, or too laid back and lose him to another girl. Here are a few tips and tricks that would help you bag the man of your dreams without looking too desperate.

SHOW INTEREST IN WHAT HE LIKES:

Men pay more attention to women who like what they like. That’s a fact. IF you like something he likes, he’s bound to spend more time with you doing that activity. So, every now and again, show some interest in what football team he likes, read about them and ask him some questions; he’ll enjoy teaching you about everything he knows.  


DON'T BE TOO MUCH OF A GIRLY GIRL:

You can be all flowers and sunshine, but not all the time. Men are very sensitive to pink and the world of girls. IF you push too hard to invade his manly space, it’s going to man him run further. So, be a boy’s-girl. This doesn’t mean you have to roll in the dirt and mess up your perfect manicure, you just need to take part in more boy-oriented sports. Have a beer with him once in a while. Instead of wearing heels, wear sneakers so you can run around with him at a moment’s notice

FLIRT A LITTLE

This might be a bold step but it’s a step you got to
take. Nothing tells a guy you’re interested in him than flirting. Make
eye contact, hold it for a while and smile. That will send him a clear
message that your light is green and he can ask you out.


ASK HIM OUT

This is the boldest step of them all but if you are as impatient as my friend, Lakeisha and can't take things slow, then ask him out yourself. There's a 90% chance that he will admire your boldness and
accept your proposal.


Ladies, so there you have it. Some tips and tricks to get the guy you
like. Remember to thank me later though *wink**wink*.